Source: Gulf News
All of us millennials have an insight into all those “dramatic fights” (even if you have never experienced one) that can supervene the serenity of one’s married life.
Tulsi for letting us in her house unveiling “ rishton kay bhi roop badalty hain” all our childhood. First, let this title song refresh all those memories.
Now, let’s have a look at how you can survive in a joint family
susral! 1. Have an open mind and agree to disagree with other family members as the only one you can find on the same page as you would be your better half.
Read: 3 Crisis Situations That Test A Marriage And How To Survive Them! 2. Try to adjust to the new routine as early as possible and be genteel while you take your time.
via GIPHY 3. There will be scuttlebutt all around but don’t lose your calm and be prepared to defend your position if anyone confronts you.
Read: These 14 Absurd Reasons People Gave For A Marriage Being Called Off Will Make You Go, “Whaaat?!” 4. Just make sure that you are on good terms with the
sarbarah (head of the house) of the family because they are the COAS of the house and nothing can happen without them having a say in it.
via GIPHY 5. Just don’t freak out by zillions of responsibilities dumped on you by the whole entourage, instead, take the lead and divide the work among all of the members equally so that no one is overburdened.
Read: Take Notes Everyone! Here Are The 3 Things That Change After Marriage 6. It would be really hard to get alone time with your soul mate so don’t fly off the handle. Just think ahead and plan morning or evening walks, long drives, movie nights to have a whale of a time.
via GIPHY 7. The exasperation is inexorable when every man jack feels free to put in an appearance invading your personal space. All you gotta do is be vocal and let them know their limits respectfully.
Read: Here Are 4 Overlooked Reasons Why Marriages Fail In Pakistan 8. The family politics will expect you to side with either
chachi or tayi. Deal with the situation diplomatically gladdening both your aunties.
via GIPHY 9. Just don’t lose yourself amid all the hullabaloo as it will only worsen the situation.