Having a crush is bane of one’s existence! From imagination to reality, your mind is always tenanted by your crush at the cost of your serenity. And despite wanting to get rid of it you become snagged in the cluster of inescapable thoughts.
To help you out with this draining snag, we have 12 tips for you to stop thinking about your crush all day.
1. Indulge in a new hobby
With time you’ll develop interest and would be more interested in learning more about your new hobby than contemplating about your crush.
2. Don’t repress your thoughts
Don’t be hard on yourself and understand that it is ok if you’re still not over your crush. Suppressing them will only make it worse. So, you need to put them out somewhere to clear your head off.
3. Write it out
Start writing whatever you’re thinking and it would be such a relief.
4. Talk to a friend
If you’re having trouble writing your thoughts, just go to your bff and pour your heart out.
5. Remove their contact info
You wouldn’t want to check their WhatsApp status every two minutes, right? So, go on and delete their number right now!
6. Block them on social media
If you really are tired of thinking about your crush all the time, it’s mostly because all the time you’re on the social media ID’s scanning all the updates. You might have heard it before but kuch paany k liye kuch khona parta hy (No pain ,No gain) is for real.
Block them on all social media rn!
7. Meet new people
Start going to all the parties that you’re invited to or just go for a walk in the evening and make new friends.
8. Facts over feelings
Take a page and write pros and cons of thinking about your crush all day. You’ll see what cost are you paying and the reason you actually start to move on with your life.
9. Shift focus on your goals
Take a minute and think about all your life goals. Now reflect on how much time have you wasted and ignored all your plans.
10. Be honest with yourself
After all these steps, have a self-talk and see how much have you lost and gained nothing. This reality check will definitely let you move away from all those exhausting thoughts.
11. Adopt a healthy lifestyle
Shift focus on yourself. Start eating healthy and observe if you’re stress eating or not eating at all. Then work on improving your routine by making a diet chart.
12. Give yourself time to heal
Remember, you can’t just snap out of it in a minute. You need to give yourself ample amount of time and be patient.
Watch The Crown and stay up-to-date with all the royal drama and how it works to keep you distracted.